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Brand New Girl
My eleven year old said to me recently, “Mom, we need to find you a boyfriend so you stop being sad sometimes.” I responded with, “I’m...
Shari
Jun 243 min read


The Only Thing I’ll Likely Ever Commit To
As a divorced mom, I’ve come to realize that when I see my kids, I feel like I need to love on them extra hard to make up for the days I...
Shari
Mar 302 min read


We're All Toxic
A friend told me once, "we're all toxic in some way or another even though we may not see it or we may not think so." She shared this...
Shari
Sep 22, 20242 min read


Liar, Liar
According to this article I found on Google; ‘The time it takes to get to know someone can vary depending on your intentions and how...
Shari
Jul 7, 20243 min read


Friday Ramblings
PROLOGUE: I did have drinks prior to writing this so let that be known. This was me when I got home tonight . I went out to dinner,...
Shari
Feb 2, 20242 min read


I’m Gonna Need You to Stop
I spent the afternoon with some girlfriends yesterday at a winery - The Quarry- (https://quarrywinegarden.com/) and while of course we...
Shari
Jun 25, 20233 min read


10 Things to Know About Dating a Single Mom
If you've been following along with me for any amount of time, you know that we've determined that dating in today's world is exhausting!...
Shari
Jun 11, 20234 min read


5 Things You Need to Know When Dating a Trauma Survivor
You know how there's always those moments when you do something and you're like, man, I really wish I had done that differently. Or when...
Shari
May 5, 20232 min read


The Aftermath
'Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.' First off, this is the "end" of my...
Shari
Apr 18, 20233 min read


Let Me Tell You How it Started
No one ever thinks when meeting someone new, that it could turn into some kind of bad dream you seem to be living. Almost like a bad...
Shari
Mar 27, 20232 min read


I Think We Should Talk
Here I am, Sunday night, 9:36pm, laying in bed with a sleeping seven year old on my chest while I'm crying thankful that he's here but...
Shari
Mar 13, 20232 min read
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